Friday, December 09, 2005
I've observed so many friend circles or groups ., a few of mine included . Many.., under some kind of notion that friends are always to hang out with., share jokes., laugh together..,watch movies and all the other fun stuff. Thats right.,but u can also share the serious and sad stuff too.
I've had so many good ppl as friends., but as friends., they weren't that gr8.,coz no one showed or shared emotional stuff with me.
Most coz guys (at least yung guys) have this feelin that showin the slightest signs of emotions is 'girly' and makes them look weak and not 'macho'. Guys ! No one's askin u to cry !
I must admit girls are jussst a little better when it comes to showing ur feelings and emotions to their friends.., well.,here too., there are exceptions in my case .
When I go talk somethin serious to some of my friends ., they're like ., " hmm., ok., so now wat ?" . I do have very few friends to talk to., but sometimes it feels like they're just lending an ear and not really listening.
Well., I'm a damn good listener., i'm allways ready to listen to my friends., so why won't they come talk to me ? Nothin wrong with me., its with them. Some ppl too shy or crazy to open up to their own friends.
Emotions and sentiments are what seperates us from animals .., don't hide them 4m your dear ones. Hiding emotiona & feelings such as Love., anger., sadness or happiness from your friends till its too late to express them can badly damage ur relation or the rapport u share.
Posted by Kk at 9:01 PM