Friday, December 09, 2005

Dear friends ...,


I've observed so many friend circles or groups ., a few of mine included . Many.., under some kind of notion that friends are always to hang out with., share jokes., laugh together..,watch movies and all the other fun stuff. Thats right.,but u can also share the serious and sad stuff too.
I've had so many good ppl as friends., but as friends., they weren't that gr8.,coz no one showed or shared emotional stuff with me.

Most coz guys (at least yung guys) have this feelin that showin the slightest signs of emotions is 'girly' and makes them look weak and not 'macho'. Guys ! No one's askin u to cry !
I must admit girls are jussst a little better when it comes to showing ur feelings and emotions to their friends.., well.,here too., there are exceptions in my case .
When I go talk somethin serious to some of my friends ., they're like ., " hmm., ok., so now wat ?" . I do have very few friends to talk to., but sometimes it feels like they're just lending an ear and not really listening.
Well., I'm a damn good listener., i'm allways ready to listen to my friends., so why won't they come talk to me ? Nothin wrong with me., its with them. Some ppl too shy or crazy to open up to their own friends.
Emotions and sentiments are what seperates us from animals .., don't hide them 4m your dear ones. Hiding emotiona & feelings such as Love., anger., sadness or happiness from your friends till its too late to express them can badly damage ur relation or the rapport u share.

5 comments:

incognito said...

nice man!! finaly writing about urself huh!! people do have lot of pent up emotions... i can understand ur predicament, its the same here, but i have jus given up...if someone wants to they'll..y the bother!
anywyas
cheers

rohini said...

boy u stole mah wordz!!
datz so true..so very...luv the way u pour yer thots..
..i believe emotions make the man complete....
hmm..u don hafta play the macho man game wit a women..u can show yer weaknesses to a girlfrend nd she still accepts u...
in alll yer posts y do i c yer quest for a gud frend?u hav got loadsa frenz..no doubt..u freak out wit 'em..haffun...buh i think some element is missing..the real bonding....

Kk said...

Right said RON., i cudn't have said it better myself. Thnx 4 understanding wat I had in mind n wat I wanted to express.

rohini said...

Anytime boy!!..do ping me wen eva u feel low..wud definitely try to cheer u up!! :)

P A said...

nice to hve pple who listen around! n yes its true .. u r nev true frens unless u share ur joys as well as sorrows .